feat: sync with upstream — v1.2.0, in-app updates, Projects, modules

Brings the public tree back in line with the development repo after several
weeks of drift caused by a stale publish include list.

New:
- In-app update path: GET /update/check compares the checkout against
  origin/main and POST /update/apply runs `ncp upgrade` detached (pull,
  rebuild, restart). The sidebar shows the version, checks on click, and
  offers an "update available" pill.
- Projects: a project workspace groups chats and RAG documents, with
  per-project instructions and document retrieval scoped to the active
  project. Replaces the standalone Documents page.
- modules/: auto-discovered feature plugins (mail, network) with their
  frontend counterparts and tests.
- Memory curation runs in-process (synapse/memory/curator.py) on the chat
  model when a conversation goes idle. The separate memory service on :8001
  is gone, along with the launcher lines that started it.

Also: the KDE theme, panel and Promethean terminal assets, the full test
suite, and VERSION 1.2.0.

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management/nexus-app.sh

@@ -1,7 +1,7 @@
 #!/usr/bin/env bash
 # Launch NexusOS as a standalone Edge app window. Single-process mode: the
 # backend on :8000 serves the built web UI itself (no separate Vite), so this
-# only starts the memory service + backend. The AI (Ollama) does NOT auto-start
+# only starts the backend. The AI (Ollama) does NOT auto-start
 # — turn it on from the UI's Start AI button. Closing the app window shuts the
 # services back down (matches the launcher's "closing the window shuts it down").
 NEXUS_ROOT="$(cd "$(dirname "$(realpath "$0")")/.." && pwd)"
@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ if curl -s --max-time 1 "$APP_URL/" >/dev/null 2>&1; then
     OWN_SERVICES=0
 else
     OWN_SERVICES=1
-    # Single-process app: memory + backend only. Backend serves the built UI at
+    # Single-process app: backend only. Backend serves the built UI at
     # :8000; no frontend/Vite process, no AI auto-start.
     "$NEXUS_ROOT/management/nexus-cli.sh" start -m
     "$NEXUS_ROOT/management/nexus-cli.sh" start -b